I have been watching events unfolding around me in the past few days, and have seen how quickly things can go wrong for a family, when unexpected external events happen, and impact that family.

The things that are taken for granted in anyone’s life, and the stability that comes from those things all being in place are like stacked dominoes, and if any one of them fall, they can take down all the other dominoes around them very quickly.

Just some of these are housing, income, work, relationships, & family, but there are many more including ones you wouldn’t immediately think of such as violent relationships, gender re-assignation, family feuds or disagreements and so on.

This scenario will happen to any individual, or family several times over the years with the changes in life that naturally happen as types of work come and go, country politics change, availability of housing varies, even family members change their views.

But, family strength and an individuals personal drive for survival gets them through it, and this is what I find enlightening and something I genuinely strive for.

When this happens you may want to ‘brush it under the carpet’ or ignore it, but you must not do so.. you need to recognise the situation quickly, pick up on exactly which domino is falling and the time frame within which you believe it will knock all the other dominoes down, and deal with it.

Correct the one thing that is threatening everything else and your stability, quickly and life will return to normality quickly.

Seek help if you need it, do not let things slide too far before doing so.

I am not saying it is easy, nor anything I would ever wish on anyone, but there is always another day, another sunrise, and there is nothing in life that cannot be dealt with, and as much as the event may be sudden, unexpected, or bigger than thought, you must deal with whatever the issue is quickly, and in an intelligent and focussed way.

I am not a life specialist, but if you ever want a friendly ear to talk to, about anything from relationships, to gender issues, or to just life I am always here and happy to listen – just drop me an email at Trouble@Trouble-AI.org

Trouble xx